Would this annoy you ? 🙄

Absolutely yes would annoy me. The communication should be between the parents not the gf (at this point being it's only been 3 months)

@Kayleigh I thought this however her dad has been good with me and is a great dad. so I thought I’d give his partner benefit of the doubt. I don’t know whether i should message him x

I think that would be what would annoy me the most. It's been an amicable relationship and something you've always done so why would you not still do it? I just know that if I started dating someone for 3 months, there is NO WAY I would put myself between 2 co-parents. Let alone think it's my place to message the mother directly and comment on her parenting skills! It all just seems a little shady. Was it his phone she replied on or hers? Maybe he doesn't know? But then again if he does, if you message him are you going to open a can of worms? It's tricky 😕 x

@Kayleigh it was on her Facebook I messaged her he would have been at work when I sent the text to him. He spoils her more than me so I think he would disagree with her comment 😂 x

I hope she has children of her own to at least be able to comment on someone else's parenting! 🤣 if you think it won't make things worse by talking to him then I would mention it. Don't want to cause any friction etc but this actually hurt me when xxxx was said or something! I think you are justified in being annoyed by it and I confirm i would be as well lol x

oh absolutely not. her responses are rude towards the mother of her boyfriends child. she definitely has no respect for you or the relationship you and BD have for the sake of your daughter! I completely understand giving her the benefit of the doubt since she is around your daughter but 3 months of dating is not enough for her to earn the benefit. all communication must be done with BD and if it’s not going anywhere, unfortunately if you both buy her the same toys, then the more the merrier! she will just have 2 of everything

@Brittnay Orosco so I texted him “ hey could you talk to x because I tried asking her what had been bought and this was her response” including a screenshot and he sent me a picture of what they’ve bought and said he will be talking to her x

I wouldn’t want her anywhere near my daughter with that comment…it would make me worry that she’s having her needs neglected when she’s in their care 🤷‍♀️

@Becky her dad does all the caring I think he just wanted her to feel involved by letting her pick presents x

That’s valid, as long as you’re confident that’s the situation. I wasn’t saying he’s not a good dad, just that I don’t believe people with her attitude should be involved with other people’s children…how someone parents is up to them, not up to someone who’s only been around 3 months

@Becky I’m trying to stay out of the relationship but I’m not sure it will last much longer x

Sorrrrrrry but who is she actually speaking to like that!? 😅 about ‘our business’ it’s not even her daughter! And they’ve been together 3 MONTHS!? She needs to return to her place and sit back down

Let’s hope it doesn’t last much longer. She sounds like a b*tch. Your daughter deserves to be around better and I hope he does speak to her about having a little more respect for his child’s mother x

Wow. And they’re only 3 months in?! That’s incredibly disrespectful. You and bd obviously have a good co-parenting relationship and she should be coming in and respecting the rules and boundaries you all have set, not imposing her own. As a child of divorce, my stepmom parented the way my dad did, he set the tone for me and my siblings and she followed his lead. My BD has a son that’s not mine, he makes the choices. If he wants advice I give it. But I never step over any boundaries he has. She’s trouble.

3 months is she having a laugh why is he not able to communicate with you your her mother and also she’s cheeky loool

@Elise he was at work when I asked and I think he wanted his new gf to feel involved he has since sent me a picture of what he had bought x