Is a man a "simp" if he pays towards her credit card bill when she's a stay at home mom (no job rn)?

When she worked she paid towards it but as a SAHM now is he a simp to pay towards while she doesnt have an income yet?
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I feel like I’m missing something are they a couple?

@Daija yes he's the father of their child, she's his fiancé

No sounds like he’s just playing his part in the relationship

What’s a simp?

I mean ya he should, they're engaged and have a child together. If she's a SAHM why wouldn't he be responsible for all the bills

Uh what are you talking about? My husbands going to take over my credit card bills while I’m home with the baby and not working. I paid his bills when he was out of work. Only redpilled incels refer to men as simps for taking care of their family.

@Linda basically it’s a person who does anything for their partner/crush so they can get attention or affection from them

Why does it make him a simp? And why are simps bad? If we're in a relationship, shouldn't we be mutually simping? I didn't understand words of today.

@Victoria~ thanks.

@Mee it’s like being a bitch or whipped like negatively..

No lol a simp is someone who goes to the strip club and spends his whole paycheck on a dancer there because she tells him he’s cute and special and he believes it😂 not a man who’s financially supporting his wife or baby mama. Simping shouldn’t even be a word used when it comes to relationships of mutual respect, that’s like saying a girl is a pick me because she spends her weekends home with her hubby instead of at the club with her friends. Just makes no sense lol

How else would she pay for said credit card bill?

Well how could she pay the bill otherwise? They've made the decision as a family for her to stay home so I'd assume it all works for them and he's comfortable providing financially. However, if it's an enormous credit card bill she built up through being irresponsible then perhaps he shouldn't be paying it. But if that's the case then I'd say they couldn't afford for her not to be earning a wage so she wouldn't be a SAHM in the first place.

Lol thanks Autumn. I definitely don't understand the word 🤣

Polls like this really make me wish there was an actual wage for family caregiving. It is work!! Just unpaid!

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I have no idea what a simp is, but this sounds like a nice/normal thing to do?

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