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I wouldn't feel offended, I think it's not a bad gift for someone who likes sharks. But if you don't like it I agree with above
I mean, what did you want from someone who doesn’t know you all that well? He knows you like sharks and got you a cute shark bag, isn’t that actually really thoughtful? I was under the impression that secret Santa usually meant the gifts are on a budget or not that extravagant. I don’t understand the offence, be polite, say thank you, and move on.
i wouldn’t be offended, but you’re not an a-hole for not liking it. it sounds like he put some thought into it because he got a gift based on something he knows you like. maybe i need more context to really understand, but that’s what i got from it.
You don’t have to like it but I don’t see nothing offensive considering you like sharks
lol couldn’t he have just got you a candle or something. I would say thanks then promptly take it to the charity shop and forget about it
If you take it personally thats assuming the gift is about you, but you didn’t ask for it, or pick it out, it’s entirely a reflection of his taste, perspective, gift giving skills or lack thereof - not yours.
… and, if you thinking it’s a gag gift to be cheeky, well - agreed just forget about it, and Marie Kondo that!
Get yourself a replacement gift and let this one go. No need to cause any sort of stir at Christmas or give any more mental energy toward this person or gesture. Just toss it and live your best life in 2025. If he's still around next December, you can worry about it again then.