Overdue

Is anyone else past their due date and struggling mentally with the uncertainty? I’ve had on and off low level period pains for weeks with no real changes or progress. Mentally finding this stage really challenging and I know that won’t help my situation as I need to keep oxytocin flowing. All of my pregnant friends have now had their babies and understandably we’ve been getting lots of messages from family/friends asking if baby has arrived. I feel really lonely and like no one relates to or understands how I feel. Thanks in advance x
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41+4 and still nothing. I've had no intervention but he's still not come. I am struggling with on and off worrying about him so I totally feel your pain. What are you struggling with? I have a scan tomorrow and may have a sweep xx

@Rebecca thanks for sharing lovely ❤️ I’m in the same position as you, 40+3 today and seeing the midwife tomorrow so will likely also go for a sweep. Feeling similar worries about not going into spontaneous labour, having to go down the line of induction etc. I feel really moody with my family who want me to be positive x

I’m 5 days over due xx

I’m 5 days overdue, I’ve been fine until the last couple of days where anxiety seems to have hit and I’m convinced I won’t go into labour naturally and won’t cope with induction! It all seems like a lot to handle, even with support it’s sort of all on you and all on your head isn’t it. It’s hard! But I suppose we will be through it soon

@Nicole the emotions are really overwhelming! Has your midwife spoken to you about induction etc? I just want to make the best decision for me and my baby x

@Jacqueline hope you’re not waiting too much longer ❤️ we’ll get there x

Just been for my 4th stretch and sweep lol no change he’s still 1/2 I will be induced on the 28th if he doesn’t come before but I doubt it xx

@Jacqueline fingers crossed for you!! I’m most likely going to have a sweep tomorrow, feeling a bit nervous but so keen to get things going x

Good luck I hope yours works xx

I have my second sweep tomorrow then induction on 28th, very similar to @Jacqueline 😂

I’m 41 and 4 days and no signs of baby coming! I’ve had four sweeps but not successful! I’m physically fed up aswell and keep thinking baby never coming! Got to try and stay positive. Baby will come when they are ready! Xxxx

I’m the same, only a day over due but this mental battle is hard. I feel SJ emotional, the pressure of everyone being kind to check it is actually a lot. I just want to go into this in the positive mindset I had but I can feel myself just worrying more now x

I was 11 days overdue. The baby will come when it's ready. Try to enjoy Netflix and get some sleep in the meantime! (I know it's hard, I was so fed up)

I went a week over and honestly just started ignoring the constant ‘is anything happening yet’ and ‘what you don’t feel like your even close yet’ messages. You’ve got your own head to deal with without feeling like I was letting everyone down growing closer to my booked induction 😔 Just enjoy the last part and savour having your baby still inside nice and snug. I’m over the moon that he’s here but quietly I’m missing being the only one that felt him it’s so precious 🥹❤️

@Kate 🤞🏼🌈 oh I really empathise with you I have been really tearful and struggling to stay positive. People are wanting to be supportive but the constant messages can be tough x

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@Lucy thank you for sharing ❤️ did you make it to your induction or did baby come before? I really empathise with those feelings I have felt very similar! I just want to know it’s going to be okay x

@Jessica hope baby comes soon for you! ❤️ x

Thank you! He came at 1:41 am! 8.5lb! 3 hours of labour 🥰❤️

I had the induction, they started it at around 4pm on Monday and he was born at 3.32am on Tuesday. The induction made my labour very fast there was nothing for hours and then I was there. If you get to that point my advice would be to be ready to be moved to delivery at any point! Good luck I’m sure your little one won’t be long now

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