Really considering going self-pay too. Or doing a monthly membership at a place does Direct Primary Care
@Miranda thats what we did the past 2 years because we were irresponsible newlyweds but now that we have a kid Im afraid of a random cancer or random accident that requires a good chunk of upfront payment. Even if I set that money aside it might not be enough for a major sickness event š„¹
I think itās necessary, but also for a peaceful mind. We pay $350/month, and that includes $150 towards our HSA.
I donāt have ins so Iām paying a midwife out of pocket. Labs and u/s are half the price self pay lol but we have hospital indemnity, so if I end up there itās treated like self pay but that ins just pays me what we owe (up to whatever amount we signed up for) itās like $20-40 a month. My husband sells insurance and knows how much of a scam it is, so weāll do a plan with an actual office/provider.
@Lindsay its yours through work? That sounds like a great deal.
@Kelsea is that like Aflac? I totally forgot about that option girl!
Definitely not. Insurance is the reason things are marked up to extreme prices
We are 550k in medical debt because we didnāt have insurance. Nuff said.
Sheesh! Are you not getting health insurance through a job? For my daughter and I, I pay monthly $92 for medical, $6 for dental and $0.81 for vision. We have Cigna through my job. When I was between jobs I paid $250 for Kaiser through Marketplace
@Candice the insurance through my husbandās job is top tier and would cost us $400 a WEEK. Marketplace insurance was much cheaper but way less benefits for still that amount of money in my opinion. We couldnāt qualify for any discount š«
@Candice I get insurance thatās paid 100% through my job. Prior to that we paid $3000 a month for a group policy health insurance through my husbands work for our family.
@SquishyMommy1 Fuck. My biggest fear is not be able to afford care out of pocket but many health insurances will deny claims out of nowhere anyways š«
@Ana Moore we both have really great insurance. They cover most everything even if it makes me want to pull my hair out. My insurance up and changed my medication tiers for 2025 and my meds I need to live went up to $120 a month until I hit my medication deductible ($500). Obnoxious! But still not the $500 we paid per month for me to be on my husbands. I would rather play Russian roulette with what they will or wonāt they pay for then not have insurance. Ever again. I shattered my wrist without insurance and we had a child that had 5 inpatient stays for serious mental health issues and we are paying for it. Well actually not paying for it. Because we just arenāt paying for the debt š¤·š¼āāļø
@Kelsea Can you go into more detail about this? You contact a specific Dr and they make a plan with you?
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@SquishyMommy1 Ugh I might need to bite this bullet šø. Im sick and tired of being an adult already.
@Ana Moore I highly advise it. My shattered wrist after surgery was $78,546 in the end. I fell down 2 stairs. Yes 2 stairs. You never know when youāll need it.
@SquishyMommy1 I would be pissed
@Ana Moore I was too much in pain to be pissed šššššš. But I am really just pissed at the whole system. I need special anesthesia because I have the red headed gene. It costs way more. Plus the ER visit. All the X-rays. The surgery. Blah blah blah. Insane.
I feel like the point of insurance is if something happens that you couldnāt afford. Try catastrophic insurance with a really high deductible? Certainly your kid needs to have insuranceā¦
@Grayson yes! Vaccines for example. Iām lucky that our PCP is part of our state program for free vaccines. Before we had insurance we only had to pay for the time to inject them. Which was $23. Because the vaccines were free. Otherwise we would have had to pay for the vaccines too.
@Grayson Im looking into aflac at least for this year since we have such a close date to make a decision. Doctor visits are the least of my worries since we have lived without insurance this entire time. Uninsured kids donāt pay for vaccines in Texas and our favorite pediatrician is only $150 per visit. He wouldnāt even be covered in this blue shield insurance policy.
@Lindsay you have a beautiful family
@Ana Moore it is through work. I havenāt stepped out and into self-pay. But there are tax benefits to self-pay if you itemize your expenses š¤·š½āāļø
@djAaammmš«¶š» aw, thank you so much š„°š
What do you get for $640, because damn! Super thankful for the NHS. I paid Ā£112 a month.
No thatās actually insane. Being a stay at home mom gives me and my toddler free health care. Thereās no way in heck Iād be able to afford that. They just come up with random numbers and give it out I swear
Reading all these comments about the cost, Iām like ādamn! š³ā. I donāt know much about insurance but as far as I know, I donāt pay anything. When I no longer was under my motherās health insurance, I got my own. Now, my kids and husband are under my health insurance.
@Helen $1000 deductible, I think $30 copay in primary care $100 specialist, $160 ER and some random other deductible and amounts that they cover. Vision and dental are super basic. I donāt like the fact that they donāt cover my doctors of choice, I need to use through their network.
@Sami Im a SAHM too and for some reason I thought we would also have some kind of discount. Nope.
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@s a r a š„ is it through work? Medicare/Medicaid?
@Ana Moore No, not through work. Possibly through Medicare/Medicaid, yeah.
@Candice my work insurance to cover 3 people is 962 dollars per two week pay period LOL so no, some of us arenāt getting insurance through work
@Kaylyn not all doctors will do this but itās called direct primary care. They would probably have opened an office specifically to do this. You can pay a monthly fee to that office but emergencies and specialists arenāt covered. Thereās also cost sharing insurance (usually Christian companies) that cover everything over $1000. Worth looking into.
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I pay $590 a month for myself, my spouse, and one dependent. In NC