Sex of baby

We aren’t finding out either but I’m sure I seen a stacking nub at 12 weeks ! And then I had a private scan at 16 weeks and said I didn’t want to know …and the guy said look away and then said not to have the video and it showed between the legs ….making out it would be obvious what it is ….so I was like got to be a boy ! Then at my midwife appointment we listened to the heartbeat and I said “oh sound just like my boys heartbeat must be a boy” and she was nodding yes and she said I will tell you later why I think ur right ….but she knew we didn’t want to know the sex …. So I feel like it’s all been ruined for us x

I also feel like it's been ruined for us, I really didn't want to know and now I feel like i know! X

@Terri I’ve got my 20 weeks scan coming up and I feel like saying “just tell me “ because I’m sure I know ….but a part of me doesn’t want too in case in wrong x

It could have been the umbilical cord you saw. We had our 20 week scan today (already knew the sex from a private scan but wanted them to confirm) I was adamant we were having a boy by looking at the scan but it was the cord.. we're having a girl.

I had my 20 week scan the other day. Told her I didn't wanna know but I said it's fine if I see on the screen it was more for my family. I looked and i could have sworn I saw male bits. I asked her and she said she didn't look. I asked her to write it down in an envelope. Went and got the balloon filled up. Done my gender reveal and she is a girl. I've never been more shocked in all my life I was convinced she was a boy and I was so sure I seen balls and a willy on the scan turns out it was my placenta lol x

And this is my 4th baby lol

Thank you all it has made me feel a lot better. Now I am doubting it's a boy which is good! I want to keep guessing you know! Where as yesterday I was just like well it's a boy. I was sure I saw balls and a willy too 🫣 I guess we will find out soon!!

So this sort of happened with my second. I thought I saw something and I was sure the sonographer also said “he” when she was talking afterwards and I was sure it was ruined… turns out it was a girl. Sometimes you “see” or “hear” things but that isn’t actually the case. Try not to focus too much on it, scans are never 100% on the gender anyway and I’m sure you would have still been happy with a boy.