He said I should take it off

that is such a horrible situation for you to be in, i’m so sorry! have you explained how much you want the baby and how you can make it work, i’m sure you have. but don’t feel forced into doing anything you don’t want to xx

Your body your choice love

I’m sorry to hear that. If you want to keep the baby then thats what you should do.. if he didn’t want a child he should have thought of that before hand! Maybe explain to him too that there’s never a right time to have kids there will always be some reason or something getting in the way of him thinking it’s the right time, once baby is born and he sees his child for the first time it will all make sense to him.. congratulations on your pregnancy ❤️

I’m a little confused is he telling you to have an abortion or that you can take this year off from work idk if I’m missing something but I’m so confused

@Elle yhh thank you! I explained I will work from home when baby is born and be there full on

@Bryar yes to abort but I don’t want to

All mums I know have told me there’s never a “good time” for a baby so you might as well crack on with this one ☺️ Sometimes men don’t understand how difficult it can be to conceive, even if you have already been pregnant. He’s probably just stressing about work/money/being a responsible father. If you love this baby and want to keep it then it’s your decision. he will come round once it’s here and if he doesn’t then it’s probably not someone you’d ever want to have a child with no matter the timing ❤️ Hope it all works out for you x

So he was he not thinking of that when he knocked you up ? That’s so selfish. There is NEVER a good time to have a baby, I’m 3 kids in and can tell you these babies will happen when they want to. Doesn’t matter what’s going on in your life. If having this baby is what you want have it and tell him to do one