I use Grandma’s Secret Spot Remover. It works awesome! https://a.co/d/hklXtJ3
Dont be embarrassed A lot of mommies use the bibs/ aprons types to prevent clothes getting messy But sometimes I dont have them handy so I just say F it and let him get dirty. I sit him in the kitchen sink and take off his clothes there. I have an ikea stick scrubber and i scrub the clothes if necessary and just keep it moist / but wring out the water, usually doesnt let a stain happen. Target/ amazon sells kids stain remover spray that is family safe too!
We do all meals in a diaper only. No stained clothes! I was tired of clothes getting stained and finding bits of oatmeal and whatnot in the washing machine.
We also used to strip ours. But then we found these. https://a.co/d/59QAx6f and if he does end up with a stain we use this, just spray and throw in a laundry basket till next wash/wash right away if it is a stubborn stain https://a.co/d/gZDPzb0