First time mums - Might be too early to say, but is anyone "one and done"
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Me 🙋🏻♀️ 34 going on 35, I don't think I could do it again, but also, I'm just super happy with my little guy. The amont it costs for food, furniture, toys, and nursery.. it just doesn't seem doable to do it again, does it?
I hear it's easier with 2 Especially when it comes to play time. They'll have a buddy and bug you less. Plus have each other when the day comes we get old and pas. someone who gets it. My sister is a one and done. She's 35, had a terrible pregnancy 2 years ago and terrible first year plus emergency c section She knew she was one and done during her pregnancy.
@Gem to me it's doable. I have all the things now, only need diapers and wipes for #2.
Personally, my hubby and I currently live in a 2 bed 1 bath and we bought a 3 bed 3 bath house yesterday in preparation for #2 since we're trying for #2 now.
My eldest is 7 years old I had a very traumatic birth followed by all the new mom challenges so I completely understand how you are feeling. I felt the same way for 2 years as I was struggling with everything but I can say it got easier as she got older and when she was 4 I was so desperate for another baby and I struggled for another 3 years and had to go through fertility clinic to conceive. My eldest is great with my lo but now I am starting from the beginning with my lo and that's a struggle in itself. All I can say is don't feel like you need to make a decision yet as things are hard atm you may feel different in a few years when things settle, and if you decide one and done that okay too, sending you lots of love 😘
I think so, I'm 35 and just don't see myself having another x
Me I think. I had a C section so can't have a baby for 2 years after that and I'm 34 now...and also as you say this is so much harder than I anticipated! I think two kids would kill me!