Just ventinggg**
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Honestly nothing would piss me off more tbh! It’s no one’s business unless YOU guys decide to tell them. I’d be absolutely livid and demand to know who’s told them, because that’s bang out of order!!
Tbh it’s so so annoying, this is my second pregnancy after a loss and I haven’t told a soul apart from my mum my sis, my bro and my friends outside of my home. & my mil coz I live w her so it’s me hubby and her. Everyone else doesn’t know bc last time soooo many ppl found out and I started sensing bad vibes!! I mean a loss is from god but good news kept private doesn’t reach the jealous or unhappy. So my husbands aunt asks my mil “is Zara expecting? I head from *my bil* when I haven’t even told him??!! My bils are twins when one of them was still living w us I told him he went and told his close cousin and ALL his friends idk if it’s an autistic thing even when I told him to zip it? I only told him bc of the cat litter tray and mil is in a wheelchair so he had to obvs take over when my hubby is at work. But he doesn’t live w us anymore so why should I tell him and when he visits I hide my bump so there’s no way he’s seen anything. (1)
I feel like someone’s noticed and opened their gob bc that’s how they are in my in laws, first of all come to ME why are you asking my mil? Thankfully she was like idk what you’re talking about bc last time she’d blurt it out to anyone lol bless her not deliberately tho just out of excitement and I was the same ngl but now I’m super quiet about it, my husband said let ppl notice themselves and try to keep it hush till the end so that’s what we’re doing but it is really frustrating like no who really told you and why are you discussing this outside of my home? Ugghh
no you’re not alone! i had this happen at work bc everyone’s a gossip lol. it is frustrating, i’m sorry