When have you or are you telling family/ bridesmaid dress

I told my closest friends & mum and dad (my friends would have noticed when I wasn't drinking anyway) sister I would tell! Depends when the wedding is?? I got pregnant with my daughter before we got married and ended up being 8 months pregnant on our wedding day so I had to find a new dress. Was a seriously expensive pregnancy 😂

Surely even if something awful was to happen (I pray you have a beautiful healthy baby) you would want your family to know? My parents and sister have always known the second I get a positive pregnancy test, they are my support network and them being a part of this journey is important to me. I’ve had one successful pregnancy and one 18 week loss and now 11 weeks pregnant. All pregnancies they’ve known from the start and it’s been so helpful to me. Is there any reason you haven’t told your family?

@Sophie-Jayne the baby is due like a month before the wedding 🫣🫣

@Rachel we kept it to ourselves until around 9 weeks first time round too

Oh and is it a dress that can be altered ?? As I had to have measurements every other month till the wedding day! I would Deffo tell her incase she needs to change the style or Dress x

@Sophie-Jayne yeah I would say it is. Thanks x

My mum got married, asked me to be a bridesmaid. I had the dress tried on while I was pregnant with my first. I was 7 months pregnant. I made sure dress fitted then and hoped I'd lose any weight in the last two months. My mum got married 7 months after my baby was born. She said if I didn't lose weight or it didn't fit, she'd happily get me another one. The dress did fit. But it helps that the dress was a loose dress and not tight fitting xx

Honestly I had the same my brothers wedding is 2 weeks after my due date. I’ve told him I won’t be coming! His partner didn’t take it well but tbh it’s the best decision for me and my family. He understands but his partner had a lot to say! Honestly if it’s local maybe slightly different! But we would have to travel 3 hours and my partners not part of the bridal/grooms party and he’d be alone with a newborn after possibly 1-2 weeks.. if baby’s on time! Do what suits you! If you think your sister will keep it hush personally I’d tell her! 🎉🥂congrats to you and your sister though! Hope you do what works for you!