Not finding out gender

We didn’t find out for our first child and it was a really nice feeling finding out at birth. This time we found out though. Just didn’t have the patience to wait. lol

We didn’t find either until birth. It was a wonderful surprise!

@Jen had my first 19 months ago and found out early on him it was nice to be prepared and get nice outfits etc but I’ve kept all the boy things and my sister haven’t long has a baby girl so she’s given me all her things too so I think I’ll be fine for that it’s just killing me already not knowing lol xx

We’re the same we never found out with the first 2 - we might go and find out in a few weeks privately with our first 2 haven’t decided yet! It was worth the surprise with my first it was amazing with my second I was a bit out of it and not all there when he was born so it didn’t register for a few hours so it wasn’t as incredible, which is why I want to find out this time!

I didn’t first time and not finding out this time. It feels harder the second time around 😆 But yes it’s worth it ♥️ I suppose I don’t have anything to compare it to though xx

I suppose I just think once you know it’s done you know, whereas finding out at birth just prolongs the surprise and builds it up a bit more. That’s my thoughts anyway ☺️

Yes , I am not finding out either. It's hard waiting but surely worth the surprise at birth.

I’m not finding out either! I think it adds some more excitement!

I didn’t find out with my first and it was a wonderful surprise when he came out and we found out he was a boy. I’d felt he would be all the way through so it was lovely to have that confirmed. We cried! This time, he’s 3 and kept on about it being a baby sister so we found out for both of us, my curiosity and to prepare him in case it was another boy but pleased to find we are now having a girl. It’s lovely whether you find out or not, in different ways, I think

@Danielle I think that’s why I’m keeping it a suprise this time because we found out with my first and who knows if I’ll ever have more kids so it’ll be nice to find out a different way xx