That's a whole different story 20 weeks and yet to meet my midwife she keeps cancelling and the o lying appointment I have is at 29 weeks with her. I feel so failed and let down this whole care 😞 x
It sounds alot hunni my scans hvnt been great either n ive been told nxt week is my last chance cz they cant keep scanning and the sonigrapher just said “ back in the day women didnt get scans and everything turned out fine” honestly not reassuring ! I dnt see anyone or gt my bp checked just re booked again. But given “one last chance” Ive not met my midwife either my hospital is out of my gp area n i wanted to check for a uti so took a sample to my scan only for a random midwife to say u should go to ur gp not here 😔
That's horrible and sounds like the exact same. I made a complaint at my scan so they have emailed my midwife team to demand I see a midwife. I hate sonographers like that... hopefully you get a diffrent one next time. I'm glad I never had that women 🤣🤣 I'd of said something snotty back like maybe you can book me in with a more experienced staff member who knows what she is doing. Its really not reassuring is it really I'm seriously thinking about booking a private scan for that little extra check up. But even they told me ny placenter was anterior but not hospital are saying posterior so I have no clue has to what's happening but not good when your worried about baby. Hope your next scan will be a successful one and they managed to do all checks. I've got to have this one done again at 23 weeks. Then from 28 regular growth scans. I feel lik3s there not telling me things as I've looked up my baby's estimated growth based on the scan details and it is showing baby is on a small percentile atm.
Honestly its sooo crappy right? Esp when your high risk , have nobody to talk to and all we have is dr google who is terrifying and makes it wayyyy worse but who can blame us right? When we have no-one to go to for answers x I hope things get better for u too hunni n u get the scan to reassure u that its no way near as bad as dr google makes it sound x ✨
It sounds like you’re going through a lot and I can completely understand why you’d be feeling so worried ❤️ could you get in touch with your midwife and explain your worries to them? They should be supporting you and can hopefully give you some reassurance