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Wish she did start the email with “fyi” comes off kind of rude
Now I personally will have to say I do think children are affected by the video games they play. My son had to take a huge break from all of his violent / killing games because he was acting out - 2-4 hours daily it a lot , I know it doesn’t seem like it but it truly is. I would try and detox and get him off little by little so it’s not a “punishment”… mom to mom who dealt with this 2 years ago in school spending more time together / games coloring puzzles just even a movie night no electronics, kids respond so wyell and usually quickly when working with them as parents 💕 sending you love / this happens , don’t beat yourself up - these games and electronics are consuming our kids brains :(
Maybe look into therapy this has nothing to do with Fortnite
@Princess cher not sure if you aren’t aware, I know I was not until his therapist brought it to my attention but it’s “supposedly” proven that video gaming and even YouTube videos have an impact on the brain development esp at such young ages on our kiddos. I was shocked when he shared the scientific studies with me at one of his sessions , it was actually scary
But I do hope things work out because it stinks when our babies are struggling with anything ❤️🩹
I play fornite most days and there’s nothing like this in the game, there’s zero gore or blood/damage isn’t in the game at all. It’s completely PG. The hanging is worrying. I’d say therapy is a good idea tbh, those are very specific and violent images. I’d also have a sit down and ask him where he saw that.
Thank you all!
I play Fortnite with my husband sometimes and even played it around when it first came out, It’s not a very gory game at all by any means. It’s definitely made for kids including Lego mini games and such
I wouldn’t say it’s Fortnite, but is he being exposed to other things without you knowing? Have you had a conversation with him about the drawings? Also, I know you’ve said he’s diagnosed ADHD, but is there any autism? A lot of autistic young people have an obsession with death/killing - so it might be something to consider.
I've never played this game, but it definitely sounds like he's getting exposure somewhere. It's a huge issue in kids. Also, it's recommended that kids only get 30 ABSOLUTE MAX at a time.
@Brooklin no I hear what your saying, but I’m saying Playing Fortnite ain’t got nothing to do with her lol boys behaviour it isn’t gory at all
@Princess cher yeah he got to be playing or watching something else.
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Fortnite has absolutely nothing to do with it. Please enroll him in therapy, talk to him, and show him more love and attention. do not just attack him, do not take away his toys or games because that can make him dive deeper into the hole he is currently in. I wish you the best of luck. Don't blame yourself, and thank God you are notified and able to try and help him.