Iād say it could be the first one as sperm can live inside you for 5-7 days and if you ovulated on the 12th it could still be possible. But then it could be the other manš. I think a dna test would be needed, good luck. This was definitely an interesting read for the morningš Hope you are okay though! xx
*** Sorry I meant up to 5 days not 5-7 xx
@Sophie honestly I just keep laughing! Thing is I was planning on sperm donation always thatās why I was getting my eggs, dr has offered me abortion and to continue on plan but I said no, I feel like this baby was meant to be no matter how it came tbh, would it be to much to add the two men to a group chat? šš
Iām guessing the 2nd one you said the 1st one is on and off so my guess is you would have most likely been caught before now if it was the 1st one also the 2nd one is strange sperm so most likely the 2nd
Yeah I feel like everything happens for a reason and you must be over the moon to find out you are pregnantā¤ļø
If you feel you want to add them do itšxx
I do love peanut sometimesš¤£
@Sophie now itās sinking in and iv told my sister I am really really happy. I have since sent a separate text to both guys, same message just explaining and apologising itās via text Im just shocked. On/off guy has replied with if itās like Iāll pay but no thank you ( in terms of being involved, which I mean, I could a guessed we on/off for fake of not being lonely, iv knows him 20+ years but it never works as a relationship, hes never wanted kids) BUTā¦. HOT guy, has replied āwell surprisingly I smiled reading that. Should we do dinner tonight to chat, Iāll cookā ⦠and Iām like DAYMMM!
Oh wow! Interesting. At the end of the day no matter what happens with any of the men, The baby will have great mum x
Sometimes things are just meant to be arenāt they! Good luck with dinner tonight! I feel so invested in what happens!
I am fully in on the outcome of this and need hot guy to be daddy!
I am invested in this story now, commenting for updates š
More chapters to read please. The best drama to date love this but not the situation for you obviously x
Morning ladies, so dinner was just 𤯠he was very sweet, very genuine, said itās obv a shock and itās moving very fast but he feeling ālike itās meant to be this wayā ⦠Iām not getting to excited for the perfection this man seems to be, but we are going to take it slow, chat, gone on a date a week, he wants to come to all my scans and app⦠I told him what on/off guys said about the situation about just will pay if itās his and he said well then it isnāt his is it, no child deserves that, so if I donāt wanna find out and we just agree now itās his, heās down with that. We have another date on Tuesday. Bowling š¤£š¤£ GIRLS PRAY FOR ME HES THE ONE
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Well certainly sounds all positive!!! Hereās hoping you continue to build a lovely relationship with this guy. Feels a little like fate at the moment
Update: sadly, I miscarried š but HOT guy is still very much around, he in-fact is moving in over the weekend, I had to have a d&c on Friday and he cried as much as I did⦠told me in the summer we should book a holiday to vegas, get married and then we can think about trying againā¦. I said yes! Crazy aye!!!
So sorry to hear about your loss! Sounds like hot guy turned out to be a catch though. Hope you get everything you are wanting š„°
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It could easily be either but depends on the health of on off guys sperm. Sperm survives up to 72 hours following ejaculation. Also depends when you ovulated on that day as technically on/off guys sperm had a huge head start to the egg