Pregnant after many miscarriages

Hey, I’ve just found out I’m pregnant after having many miscarriages. I have a 21 month old but before he came along I had at least 5 chemical pregnancies and then again just this last September at 10 weeks pregnant I miscarriaged (possible ectopic) And yesterday I found out I was pregnant but I can’t get excited because my history! I also turned 40 last August so time isn’t on my side! I haven’t even told my husband yet because I don’t want to get his hopes up, and I don’t know if/went I should tell him! I don’t know how to feel! Any advice would be greatly appreciated x
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I completely understand how you feel. I had 5 miscarriages in the past 2 years and still haven’t fallen pregnant since. I used to get excited about getting pregnant but now I’m just living a day at a time. I’m 39 this year, so close to 40. It’s not much of an advice but just wanted you to know that I can relate. I hope this is a healthy pregnancy for you. xx

@Celine thank you! It’s also nice to know I’m not alone x

I feel this too. I’m 39 in a few weeks and have been thinking how if I ever got pregnant again, I’m not sure I could even bear to tell my husband initially and have someone else get their hopes up. Recurrent miscarriage is heartbreaking. I really hope it’s a positive outcome for you. Take your time - there’s no right or wrong way to feel and to process this xx

@Nerida thanks I gave in a told him this morning and he was happy but he clearly was clearly worried, I asked him why and he said, we’d have to find a place to live! (We currently live with his mum in a small 2 bed place that I’ve been wanting to move out for ages but our credit is terrible) hopefully he’ll get his act together and find a home for us

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