Anyone else not zen after transfer ?
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@Laura I literally just teared up reading this . I felt so alone and like I was not as good as these woman who can be so positive all the time and that somehow this negativity was gonna hinder my chance but I can’t turn it off . Thank you for sharing this . And … congratulations xx
Feel absolutely crappy emotionally and have had nothing but negative tests. Beta is on Tuesday. Here if you need to talk x x x
@Mari I’m sorry 😢 it’s so disheartening . I hope you get a miracle. Some can be slow risers. Still early days. Xx Thank you. Same goes for you . Feel free to DM me xx
It really is. An absolute emotional rollercoaster. Thank you. Sending you lots of luck x x x
It’s so hard, honestly. But you really won’t know until you know. I’ve had 3 transfers and one successful in a live birth of my almost 2 year old daughter. I wouldn’t say I felt really different each time, but the one that didn’t work at all (one was a miscarriage too) I just had a gut feeling it didn’t work. But I wouldn’t say I felt much different the times it did work, if that makes any sense.
Let yourself feel all of the emotions girl! You’ve gone through a heck of a lot. I’m sending you lots of love and luck ✨
I felt the same after my FET after a loss. I cried on day 2 because I didn’t have any symptoms and felt it hadn’t worked. But it did. I think it’s a defence mechanism after loss, you want to protect your heart and emotions so you can’t get excited. What helped me was staying distracted. Be kind to yourself, sending you lots of luck and baby dust 🫶🏻