Struggling

Anyone else struggling mentally at this stage of pregnancy or just me? 😅
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I've had a previous stillbirth so I struggle everyday thinking whether this baby is alive. Every symptom I think something has gone wrong 🤦🏽‍♀️

Yes! I’ve hit 30 weeks today and I wanna die 😂😂

Maybe that’s extreme but everything hurts, I can’t sleep I’m anxious alllll of the time waiting for somthing bad to happen just not enjoying it

Feeling very overwhelmed at the moment! Even the smallest plan on a weekend makes me feel anxious. Getting the strong urge to stay home and hunker down

I’m getting so anxious, especially about movements. I have an overnight stay away from home for work tomorrow and feeling like it’s going to be way too much for me, just want to stay home and focus on bump 😔

@Carys this is me right now, I’m in Dubai 😩 I didn’t want to come but it was all booked and paid for and my anxiety is so so bad

@Georgia I’m so sorry hun. The pain isn’t fun at all and my anxiety is crazy too!

@Carys Honestly I can’t wait to start my mat leave

At 31 + 6, my baby has just been announced this morning, dead and with no heartbeat. My pregnancy hasn’t been easy at all and right now My soul have just left my body, but I’m here to encourage all of you others to cherish each moment with your lil ones, get checked if you feel any worries. I wish you all the best in this journey, and I pray God gives me the strength to stop weeping and see the joy in what’s to come. Please say a prayer for my Baby 🕊️ She will always be in my heart.

@Jane Bernard Massive condolences hun, I can’t even begin to comprehend what you’re going through. I am so sorry. I will keep you and yours in my prayers. The Lord will carry you through this difficult time even when you feel alone he is ALWAYS there. God has a plan. Please feel free to drop me a message if you want to talk 🙏🏾❤️

@Jane Bernard my heart breaks for you. I am so sorry you have gone through this. Having been through this myself its the worst thing that ever happened to me, a year on i still cry most days and it will never leave me. Please give yourself grace and time to heal ❤️

@Larissa I’m NUMB I need prayers, strength and advice right now. Set to be induced in two days! Labor without gain😭😭😭

@Sonia sorry to hear you’ve had this horrible experience before. My heart is not with me now, I’ve cried for 15 hours, prayed all through but she’s gone. How were you able to get through this? I need to knooooow😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

@Jane Bernard honestly grief is different for everyone. At first I was in a state of shock and cried everyday for weeks, then I blamed my body for failing my baby, then i didn't speak about it for ages, then I spoke without crying and now I cry at the slightest mention of it. For weeks i would try and memorise how he looked so i would never forget. I've been in therapy ever since and had to learn to accept it wasn't my fault, that my baby is an angel and we will meet again one day. I went back to my mums and learned to love myself again. You will never ever forget but you learn to live with it. I hope you find strength and peace one day❤️

@Jane Bernard I’m so so sorry for your loss. No mother should be without their child and I’m praying for you over the next coming days weeks and months that you gather the strength to take on this heartbreaking journey. Always here if you want to message someone 🤍 RIP angel 🩷😭

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Yes! I’m completely overwhelmed and feel like time is running out. Plus, I’ve been floored by a flu for the last 2 weeks. I’m over it!!!

@Dionne Ah!! Sorry hope you recover soon! And yh time is defo flying now 😭

@Jane Bernard I’m so sorry. Praying for you on this journey. It won’t be easy but it will get easier. 🙏🏾💔

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