My son is like this during wake windows and it’s hard trying to get things done around the house so I take him around the house with me while I do things and we sing of listen to music (for as long as he’ll tolerate) I know he wants a nap when he gets fed up and cranky. It’ll get easier 🩷
Getting out with my almost 5 month old really helps, whether that’s a walk, going to the shops, meeting up with other mums/family etc. I make sure we get out at least once a day and that seems to settle her (it helps that she almost always naps in her pram too!)
I agree getting out is the best entertainment. Doesn’t have to be classes/ cost money - park walks, supermarket, pet shops, garden centres, library etc
@Chloe thankyou I will have a look at getting a water mat x
@Rebecca thankyou it's nice to know I'm not the only one struggling x
@Lucy thankyou for the advice, unfortunately I have bad anxiety and even going in the garden is difficult and I don't have anyone near me
@Leonie thankyou x
@Lily I think it’s super common at this stage, my son is 4.5 months old and there are days I can’t leave the room without him fussing. Little Velcro babies. I can also relate to the not wanting to go out some days, it’s hard but we’ll get there x
Totally understand where you're coming from my little one has velcro syndrome and constantly wants to be entertained when awake
@Lily I was exactly the same before seeking help and I feel so much better. I promise it gets easier 💖
I was thinking my baby was so cranky as she was crying after a minute of any activity or if left along to just play on her mat. She walked to the park and I sat on a bench reading a book with her on my lap - she loved it, for 30mins just was looking around touching my pages and just generally content. With the nice weather maybe try just changing environment for a bit, after that she seemed more settled as well
So I'm lucky that I have a toddler who helps keep him entertained but do you have a tummy time water mat? My first lovedddd his andit kept him entertained for ages. When times are tough and nothing is working I stick on hey bear sensory and pop him in his bouncer. He's happy, I'm happy and I can have 10 mins with just my toddler. It has to be a certain one though he cries at the rest or 8 little planets by super simple 😂 found anything what flashes or makes loads of noises helps too. So we all have a dance and sing to Spotify in the evening as that's the worst time for us