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I wouldn’t take him again to any of my appointments… that’s awful that he isn’t taking any interest in his child even before baby is born. I know that men don’t connect with bubba when they are still in the womb in the same way that we do but that is just disrespectful to you! You should be able to enjoy all these moments xx
I’m sorry you had to experience that. My son’s dad pressed me about how he should be going to doctors appointments with me cause it’s his child too after we broke up. I told him if he wanted to come he needed to find a way to get there. We get to the ultrasound appt. Worst experience ever. He was so hot and cold. He started off acting nonchalant and rude, just very embarrassing in the waiting room. We got in private then he started asking me to take him back. I asked him what’s up with the hot and cold attitude and he said well you want me to act like a baby dad right…. It was so irritating, especially while I’m pregnant and these moments I get to see my son on the ultrasound were so precious.
Maybe he also didn’t realize how bland and uneventful the prenatal visits are.
@Imani i told him before hand. he's been to 2 others and even before this specific appointment i told him it could be a little boring just gonna tell me how he's doing and such and he said he was excited and really wants to go so i said ok. we found out that there's a chance i might get induced early and that we should think about it and he just sat there with a straight face and didn't say a thing.
@Imani i'm sorry you had to go through that as well. i just want good experiences at these appointments and he made me feel embarrassed and irritated. really debating if i want him at the 4D ultrasound on the 11th because that's a super important appointment that im spending $200 to see my baby and i really would be devastated if he ruined it
Going through something similar wondering if this is normal