Midwife

Mine will only come to scans or important ones. I don't want him to use any holiday or use the companies flexibility now when we will definitely need it way more when baby is here. Xx

Same here, I take it as normal health appointments so I don’t need him to tag along to all but scans and important ones he has to come Also, babies first appointments he also has to come as well. That’s how it went with our first and it will be the same with our second x

With my first my partner came to every single appointment because he wanted to, he's said the same for this one. He doesn't have to take annual leave though, we both work for a company who give us time for these appointments. Personally felt some of them were a waste of time for him but he still wanted to be part of the journey x

My partner will come to midwife’s if he’s off work purely because he wants to but if he’s at work then no point taking it off unless it’s important, he’ll defo be coming to all the scans though x

My partner didn't come to any midwife appointments with my 1st, I didn't feel I needed him too, and nothing interesting ever really happened, was a couple of questions, BP, urine etc and then that was it

This is my second pregnancy so we will do the same as last time. He won’t attend midwife appointments but he will attend scans and hospital appointments

Mine just comes to the scans. It’s mainly about you and I’d rather him save his time off for when babies here