Second ba

Why is the decision to have a second so difficult? Is it just me? Phewww. I am 35 (just) and my son is 3 (also just!). Deciding whether to have another is way more difficult than deciding to have a baby at all I think. My concerns are money, space at home, tiredness, THE STATE OF THE WORLD. What did everyone else think/do?

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Title should read "second baby" 🤣 obviously

If IVF wasn't so uncertain and expensive I would do another transfer in a heartbeat. My son's only 3 months old but I would absolutely want to try for baby number two but baby number one was hard enough to get pregnant with

I could have wrote this myself! The hardest decision, I’m literally right on the fence, both me and my husband x

To me it's super easy. I cant explain it, it's like I'm at the edge of my seat waiting for baby nr 2. I know there's someone missing. If i didn't feel that way, I'd happily stop at 1 cus there's some stages I am not enjoying!

Then that usually means you don’t want another one yet. When you know you know xx

IVF pregnancy so the decision was made before mine was born. We have frozen embryos but we agreed that the cost and emotional side of things would be too much. If we took all of that out of the equation, still an easy decision. I struggled with the first 6 weeks so much that I know I don't want to do that again either.

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