No advice but It’s your life let them judge if there going to. I have a 16m old and a 4m old I kept this baby to my self never told anyone until after having him because I knew they all be talking but they barley did when he was here think they was just pissed of they never had anything to talk about lol. I’m glad I have had them both close in age it’s a little hard at first but it’s more easy now I got the hangs of things my bigger boy will have someone to play with soon properly with
Are you happy with your new partner? How long have you been together? As long as you are happy then who cares what anyone else thinks. Just do right by both your babies and that's all that matters.
I was in the exact same situation- was with my current partner for 4 months before I fell pregnant. As long as you are both happy don’t worry about how everyone else feels about it! It’s just getting over the hurdle of telling people in the first place! My partners family took it really well as it’s their first grandchild etc but my family weren’t too happy, they definitely come around though and as long as you’re happy with your little family don’t worry about who doesn’t want to support you just focus on the ones that do!
Your business is just that your business all you can do is do the best by your babies all you need to do is make sure that you are putting 100% into them. Perhaps look into birth control if it is a route you want to go down after you give birth x