Yes, I had a late loss before and it makes it so hard to believe the rug isn't going to get pulled out. 😓 I book myself a reassurance scan every couple of weeks, an expensive habit but we just find we need it to cope. X
Completely, I had a loss at 17 weeks and just don't believe it's actually all fine this time I'm just waiting to properly feel baby move so I can breathe easier not even told any friends or family as I'm afraid to jinx it
I was just about to make a post about this :( its so so hard. I need to stop booking private scans and I want to really start prioritising enjoying my pregnancy. I think when I have a bump it will help ease it 🩷 Your not alone
I have a private gender scan in 2 weeks but was so tempted to book another one for this weekend!! I just can’t afford to keep booking private scans!! Trying to hold out 2 more weeks xx
Honestly I completely feel this way! I found out early as I had to go hospital and they thought it was an eptopic pregnancy, lost my job a week after I told work I was pregnant and had bleeding at the start of the pregnancy. Luckily baby girl is doing well and started to kick but it’s early ish so sometimes she doesn’t kick and I panic hahaha I think everyone worries and you will until they are here and even then when they are here it’s a new worry but there’s loads of people out there to support ❤️
I feel the exact same way. After previous losses, even though we’re into the second trimester and I’ve seen baby a few times I can’t relax. I just had a scan on Tuesday but want another already. Hopefully once we feel movement it’ll be easier.
Yes!! I'm 16+5 and feel exactly the same. I saw the midwife today and she said there's not a lot you can do to reassure yourself at this stage. Symptoms lessening is normal, so I'm now just walking around as if I'm not even pregnant! But, unless you have signs that something isn't quite right, just know that your little one is safe inside you and cooking away nicely 😊