Returning To Work

I still cry everyday I don’t know why women are forced to work

I went back at 12 weeks pp. The first week or two was a bit of a rough transition, but once we settled into our new routine it was totally fine. However, I adore my job so I'm sure that has something to do with it.

@Alessa aw I’m sorry 😞 I feel like I will be the same way 🥺 when did you return?

@MK I like my job too but I guess what is unique about my situation is that I work in an infant room, so I’ll be away from my infant but working with other infants. It makes me feel like I’ll miss my baby so much more

@Karla I completely understand that, I work in a pediatric ICU. So I also work with babies/children all day. I definitely feel fulfilled by my work though. I feel very honored to be able to take care of such extremely sick/injured kiddos and also very privileged to be able to go back home to my own (relatively) healthy little one.

@MKThank you for your help. You do very important work that benefits lots of children and their family. I can see why you feel very fulfilled by your career. Also, I’m sure it absolutely does keep one’s perspective in check, that is, being thankful for things we might take for granted, like being healthy. For me however, I would be making lovely memories with the little ones, but I can’t help but think I’ll be missing my little one all along…

It can be hard going back to work, even if you love your job. But knowing your baby is in good hands also makes the difference for me. I switched daycares and now feel content when I go to work. But I’m also planning to drop down to 3 days/week of work for more time with my baby.

I went back at 6 weeks post partum. I hate how women have to work right after and put maternity pay is useless. I would just call and get pictures and video updates constantly

Yes I'm scared to go back too. It's the only thing that gives me anxiety.