When you know you were done

When did you know you were done having babies? I was 5 days pp with my second baby and everyone was asking when we were trying for a boy!! I’m sitting here crying GIRL no way am I going to try. The newborn stage this time is really kicking my arse, I’m mentally exhausted and insane with sleep deprivation and I dislike it. I won’t be going through this again EVER. I don’t want to get broody in a years time and act like I’ll handle it again because I defo won’t!! Tell me your stories of being done.
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I always knew I wanted 3 boys, and was lucky enough to have that… I struggle soo much with 2 under 2, I know I’m done now because all I can think about is getting my life back on track… if I was to have another years down the line I know it would set me back x

@Stacey same! My daughter got 30 hours funded hours at nursery and I fell pregnant the same month. I spent 9 months sick and now I’m back to square 1 after just getting 1 child into full time child care 😂 I have to now wait another 3 years and 4 months until my second is given the funded hours. We will get there

@Jasmine how did you get the funded hours before they’re 3? I’ve got an almost 7 month old and a 20 month old and both still home full time x

@Stacey I didn’t my daughter got it the term after she turned 3 but In England you can get it from 9 months im sure x

@Jasmine ohh I see!!x

Newborn stage didn’t f me up it’s the 3 year old stage that f’d me up

@Darienne I love the 3 year old age but my daughter is quite mellow and content I’m jinxing myself with my second now 😂😂

@Jasmine my son was so calm and mellow as a baby, now he’s a monster truck loving wild monkey 🤣😭

@Beth same. I currently have my MIL sharing the night feeds as I can’t cope on 3/4 hours of sleep and a 4 year old 24/7. I’m only 28 and would of loved a boy but no way am I going through pregnancy and PPD again I feel so messed up

I have an almost 5 year old daughter and a 1 year old daughter and I’m 100% done it can be a struggle with 2 sometimes I just want abit of time 2 myself I had my youngest a few months after my oldest started nursery so would be nice 2 have them both in school and enjoy abit of me time I’m almost 30 🙂

@Sarah I feel you. I’ll be 31 when my youngest gets the 25 hours funded nursery at 3. I feel like that’s old enough 😂

@Jasmine same here I will also be 31 x

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