Orgasm

If you ride on top of him and rub your clit on him does it feel good? We use lube sometimes. I cum in 5 minutes or less cause I feel the movement of him inside me and rubbing my clit on him at the same time feels so good.

something like 80% of women do not orgasm from penetrative sex alone, and require clitoral stimulation. your provider just saying "fake it till you make it" is honestly such a sad answer 😅 have you ever had an orgasm via masturbation? have you considered using a wand or bullet or something that vibrates that can stimulate the clitoris during sex?

Honestly I never have tried it I never needed to. But I'm running into it being an issue now

well maybe it'll provide a whole new level of exploration with you and your husband if you get yourself a wand! 🥰 my partner and I don't have sex without it honestly lol. I don't have vaginal orgasms either.

I love what @Sarah said about exploring. My husband and I have been together 15 years. Its really fun to try new things even if there's "no need" to try. Different positions, toys, lube, touching yourself during sex, touching yourself during anal sex, there's not much we aren't willing to try together lol. I understand everyone is different though. If you have a good relationship and love eachother and communicate with eachother well you can talk about and try all kinds of new things without judgment or feeling scared. Just have fun with it 😊

What's a provider?

@Sarah well now I'm gonna be looking up wands lol and if you don't mind me asking you said vaginal orgasm. What orgasm do you have?

I can only orgasm when my clitoris is stimulated, whether it's just from clitoral stimulation or during penetrative sex. I can't cum from just penetration alone, no matter how good it feels or how long we go. gotta have my wand! lol. I mean sometimes I can use my hand to stimulate my clitoris during sex but honestly that takes too long for my liking lol.

@Dana same here. I get on top and ride and it works everytime

@Aaammgg♥️♥️♥️ lol works a little too well for me. I cum in less than 5 minutes, and then my husband still will have like 30 minutes left in him... to be clear for the woman who started the post, I only cum so well on top cause my clit is being stimulated and his dick in in me too.

Me and my partner use a wand during sex it takes the pressure off both of us in out of my head and we both cum

@Dana yes same , I be needing clit stimulation I thought I was alone until I started having girl talk with some of my friends

@Sarah yes! The wand is a must!

Honestly i feel like he just needs to take some time to focus on you, what you like, figure out what feels good!! He also needs to talk to you if he isn’t already, if you want more details on stuff like that you can message me directly— Your provider’s advice was horrible. I’ve been with my husband for around 3 almost 4 years and it took him around a year to figure me out, then once i had my son he had to figure me out ALL over again because things felt different after i had him

@Janel shot private message me some details too! lol