One and done?

I feel like I'm one and done!

@Caitlin I was in the first 3-4 months as my LG was a difficult baby🥴 but now I would say I’m 50/50 😂

🙈🙈! I'm so shocked with myself as I generally feel like I'm one and done!😳😳

October baby is my second, I have a 3 year 1 month gap which was exactly what I wanted. My first is 3.5 now and she understood she was having a little brother, didn't get jealous. She just adores him. She's potty trained feeds herself can get dressed etc, and personally I'd find it too much having 2 little ones that need me to do everything. She is even helpful at her age, can fetch me a muslin, helps feed him puree, can try to distract him if he's upset and I'm making him breakfast etc. Will only have 1 year of having them both in nursery as then she'll start school.

I am one and done

I have 2 undr 3. My eldest is 2 and my youngest 7 months. It’s absolutely heart warming when they’re giggling together in the bath. My eldest has his own agenda and is all about his mum and dad. My youngest is besotted with her brother and watched everything he does with a huge smile. At this point my eldest is learning that we need to share but he’s young , so it will take time. Youngest copies the eldest. It’s helped her I believe but also she now fights getting dressed, like him🤪. It’s easier now but the first 3 months was the trenches. Once she hit 6 months life became easier with wake windows being longer. If you do want another, I would suggest when your eldest is more independent. Three is usually a good age

I feel like I’m one and done because my baby is mostly brilliant and I wouldn’t be this lucky again with another one that’s for sure 😅 I also don’t want to go through pregnancy again especially with a baby/toddler as it was challenging enough not having anyone to look after. Birth was a dream though and again, I feel like I wouldn’t be blessed to have a good birth again. I know, I’m looking at it in a very negative way.. there’s so many other reasons for not wanting another one

My partner doesn't want anymore children. I have always wanted at least two children so it's been tough to accept. But I can now see the positives of having one child.

October baby is my 2nd and I have 2years and 2 months difference. I think it's perfect 🥰

One and done x I can’t go through another wave of pregnancy anxiety 😟

I have always wanted a big family. I believe having siblings is important as parents die and then they are alone. Of course friends, but friends come and go. Also looking after us the parents when elderly or ill, it is to be shared not 1 person job. I am an only child and always suffered because of it.

I'm one and done... Until I look at photos of my son as a newborn and then I get sad that I might not ever have a baby that small again 🥺😂

I was one and done for 10 years 🤣 then along came my Oct 24 baby and it’s the best thing I’ve done. I’m even debating a third at this point, that may change when she becomes a toddler 🫣

@Dana I know what you mean! Whereas I’ve had a very challenging baby for my first. She also is not a good sleeper so I tell myself surely my next won’t be the same 🥴😂 I do think the same with labor too as I also had a good experience