Butt hurt..

Whoa, that's wrong! I am so sorry for his lack of effort for you.

Ridiculous he asked you to do it. (He couldn't even do it himself!) I would have split it with her half and half. Or done an equal for me. Mom solidarity. ✊️

Tf!! How can he be so heartless! Shameless

I think it's easy to be offended. One thing to note is knowing your partner. Is gift giving one of his love languages if not then I wouldn't be offended.my husband is like this not because he's trying to hurt or offend he's just not a great gift giving. He'll forget to do something for his mom and last minute ask me to do it or think I already did because I'm better at it than he is. Then when it comes to me I too can be passed by and there is no one else to step in for him like I normally do. It is a short coming but not one to get wrapped in. Today I got nothing from my husband but he showered me with compliments and gave more hugs and kisses. His love language is words of affirmation and touch so he loved me his way not mine today and it's okay.

I think it's really crap he couldn't get his own mother a gift. Today is about showing appreciation in your language of love, not his. So if he knows that you appreciate gifts he could have made or bought you something, or planned an activity or written you a poem...some token of appreciation for you.

I'm guessing you have access to his card/ bank account? I'd go purchase something really nice and expensive for myself. 😏 And then say it was from your MIL 😉

@Princess 🤣 creative! Ironically, his mom and I don't get along.. she called him and thanked him. I got no thanks even though it was obviously sent from my door dash account on my phone.. also, nothing from my in-laws.. I sort of just feel like a livestock animal, something to pop out their babies and care for them but not be recognized or cared for myself... I know my emotions are overreacting but those are the current feelings.