Friendship
Hi all,
I have a best friend who I have known for 7 years. She had her second miscarriage 6 months ago and I have been there at all times. I sat on the phone with her talking about it even when I was pregnant and I also sadly miscarried.
It's been 3 months since my miscarriage and I was talking to her about it yesterday and said how I'm still having issues with spotting.
She turned round and said to me that she's in a positive head space at the moment so she doesn't want to speak about it.
I told her how I felt and it automatically put my back up. I just said bye and haven't spoken since. Tbh I think I won't speak to her again. Is this a step too far?
I find she just likes talking about herself and her issues and not mine. When we talk on the phone she talks about herself non-stop.
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In this one instance, I see her view. I had a miscarriage and I don’t like talking about it or hearing about others’ experiences. It brings back those feelings of grief. But if she never supports you then it’s valid to distance yourself.
I think you are just doing what is best for you this “friendship” took its course and is now ended. When I lost my son (stillborn) I had a gal who called herself my friend get mad because I didn’t say happy birthday to her. I mean I was honest like I wasn’t happy about anything so why would I be a hypocrite she said I needed help and all and I ended the friendship and honestly don’t regret it. Some people are just selfish. Sorry for your loss momma🤍
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she's not a true friend, u were there for her and when it came time for her to be there for u, she just wanted u to continue being there for her. a true friend would be there for u in ur time of need. u need to drop her and find true friends