Telling the family

My sister has 2 under 2 she waited till abit later but if you need support then tell sooner as I don’t think people judge much as it’s very common to have 2 under 2 x congrats

Also in this app the group section has a group for mums with 2 under 2

Oh don’t be scared. If that’s what works for you then everyone should accept your choices. If you need help sooner then you can tell your support system, else it’s fine till when you are comfortable with letting people know. I’m 8+5 and me and the hubby aren’t ready to tell anyone yet. Do what makes you happy. Ultimately, that’s what matters really. Hugs xoxo

@Sharmin no this is just the December babies. I've not asked the 2 under 2 group

@Esta I'm mostly worried as I don't drive at the moment and getting to the scan is going to be tricky especially as it's at 8:45am and we'll need to leave the house at 6am to make it on public transport but also don't really want to tell anyone till we have pictures

I haven't told any of my family yet except my sister, so I have someone to watch my little girl for my scan. I'm waiting for the scan pic and getting my daughter another big sister t-shirt (had a loss in jan) x

@Nikki my scan is just under a month away (due the 20th December) and don't know if my partner can wait that long. He's so excited

Oh i know the feeling Iv still got another 3 weeks wait for my scan I'll be 14 weeks. I thought about booking a private so I could tell people sooner as my sickness was bad but couldn't justify the money. My partner has told his fam/friends Iv just chosen not to tell mine yet

Who do you think is readily going to offer to take you to the scan and be absolutely happy for you without judging you? That’s who I’d say you should think about telling since you need help with that. Because you need to be in a good mood while going for your appointments and for your baby’s health too. Hugs xoxo