Pregnancy after miscarriage

So I am one week away from being at the stage I was when I had my miscarriage and it fills me with so much dread and that’s all I can think of, I even had a dream last night that I when to the toilet and wiped and had blood and I’m finding it quite hard. How did any of you still know you were pregnant to keep your hopes up, how do you know something Is going to happen ?. I also feel like the amount of stress I’m getting myself into over it might cause something to happen. I have also booked I’m a private scan for 9 weeks but it’s such a dreaded wait until then.
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Honestly I checked for blood after every wipe my entire pregnancy, I don’t know if we ever get over that feeling. Hopefully the early scan gives you some reassurance x

I’ve had 3 miscarriages back to back since November and honestly I just tell myself you can’t prevent it. If it’s going to happen it will. So in the meantime if you have no bleeding or extreme pain just try and believe you are pregnant until you are given a reason to believe otherwise. Easier said than done but miscarriages unfortunately are outwith our control. Sending love 🤍🌈

With my rainbow baby I was bleeding at the beginning. I thought I am gonna lose him too. I got progesterone up to 16 weeks, and baby was ok. Actually after they told me probably it was only implantation bleeding. Anyway....I always checked for blood after every wipe, or every little cramp. I worried a lot. Later on we bought a doppler, it helped me so much. (When baby didn't move yet.) Private scan helped me too. I had morning sicknesses, that was a 'good sign'.😅 I am sure your little one is perfectly fine.

I’m in this exact position right now 😔 I’ve been dreaming about it for days Im constantly feeling my boobs to see if they hurt . Still being sick but I was before my mc so that’s not helpful . Feel free to message me x

I lost my baby at 12 weeks and currently 18 weeks with my rainbow. I still dream about it. I’ve had a few bouts of bleeding too so it’s so hard to remain positive sometimes. Every time my symptoms eased I feared the worst. Only advise is to take it a day at a time, and on that day, tell yourself you are pregnant. I think once certain milestones pass, you have scans, and feel baby move the anxiety chips away slightly, but us loss mummas won’t feel relaxed until they’re safe in our arms. Sorry you’re going through this 💕

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