Miscarriage
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I tried almost immediately because I couldn’t handle the pain an now I have my handsome man he had forever changed my life do whatever your comfortable with if you want to try again go ahead other wise I recommend women condoms or pull out method if this is the case
I’m so sorry. I felt the same way after my loss at 18 weeks in November. I’d say give yourself a little time, even a couple of months to grieve. In my experience I wanted to be pregnant asap to almost fill that pregnancy gap, but it’s mostly hormones. That feeling never went away, even now, but I gave myself more space to think about having lost Willow and honoring her. I’ll be trying again a year after my loss, but mostly waiting that long because of starting a new job and wanting to be guaranteed FMLA. For protection we’re going to try Phexxi. It’s like a spermicide, but it’s non-hormonal and food grade. Just changes the ph of the vagina to immobilize sperm. Maybe your husband will be open to that since it’s nothing he has to do.
I’d abstain from intimacy unless there a condom in use. I agree with the other ladies when they say it’s way too soon for birth control and it’d be so hard to get off of them and try again for a baby. I got pregnant from the pull out method and I was not on birth control, so I’d say either abstain and try to stay intimate in way that aren’t sexual or use condoms. Even lady condoms if you feel adamant to do so.
My partner and I used the pull out method after our miscarriage. We waited 5.5 months and got pregnant two months after we started trying again. We now have a beautiful 3 month old baby boy. I’ll echo Amani, listen to your heart and intuition and do what feels right for you 💕
If he doesn’t want to use protection than he should know what comes with it and don’t get back on birth control because it throws your hormones off I was on birth control and it took my body 3 months to get back on track before I could get pregnant I say listen to your heart and follow with your mind 💯