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Have to get rid of my rabbits 😔

So for context we own a fair amount of land, I’ve wanted rabbits since I was little, I’m now 28 and pregnant with our second baby. I’m more live in the moment and enjoy the beauty of life and he is more logical - I’ve put on held all of my dreams for nearly 5 years, I’ve settled into a great career and finally find ...

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UC Struggling

Hey, is anyone really struggling with finding a job that works with nursery times? My child is 3 now so universal credit are doing everything they can to make me go back to work. I was initially working 35 hours a week until we were made homeless and relocated, this was only last year. We’ve been moved to an area th...

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if you have over 50k in savings, would that be sufficient to leave your husband because relationship did not work out? We have tried everything but it is mot working

We are thinking to separate/ divorce. We have savings that we will of course divide, I will have over 50k in savings will that be enough beside me working full time? This questions might sounds crazy/ stupid for maybe many of you, but I am nervous anxious and stressed by thinking that it will be all me with the ...

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4 yearl old behaviour

Is this normal behaviour? Whenever my daughter meets her friends at the park she always goes to thena and ask if she can come to their house. And she knows where one of her friends live and says that she wants to go to this friends house. I have now told her that it is remade to ask to go to their house and we only ...

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Snack ideas

What snacks are we feeding little ones? Any snack ideas most welcome, for at home or for out and about, thank you!

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Argument over honey

Husband was making dinner this evening and put honey on some of the chicken. I said our 10 month old couldn’t have honey because it could make her really unwell. He said he didn’t put honey on all of the chicken and that she could just have the bits that didn’t have honey on it. I said that I’d just make her somethi...

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How would you react? 14 w/o

My 14 week old has been incredibly unsettled, not sleeping, lots of crying. I’ve felt really low unable to work out how to help him or make him happier. After an emotional chat with my husband about it all this morning, he took the baby for a few hours to give me a break. When he got home, he said he took him to his...

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Grumpy partner

Anyone’s else’s partner always grumpy? He’s just so miserable, don’t get me wrong I love him but he just never smiles, ive spoke to him plenty of times about it but he never wants to do anything/go anywhere (unless it benefits him or it’s something he wants to do) I try play around and joke with him and he’s just no...

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Husband having female friends

How do you feel if your partner has female friends? I find it difficult because I know everyone can just be friends, but I don't really trust my husband making female friends. It seems stupid because I know I can just be friends with males, but I intentionally do not make new male friends, but he only talks to f...

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Am I right to be offended?

Let me preface this by saying I do not judge you for being a SAHM. The following is about a specific individual, not my opinions on SAHM’s in general. Getting it out of the way in a case any offence is caused. A friend and I were having a conversation about my plans for when baby 2 arrives. I work full-time and e...

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I just had my 3rd kid.

Hello, I recently just had my 3rd kid a few weeks ago and it’s been a bit of a roller coaster. I have 2 toddlers, a 3 yr old and 1 yr old. The plan was to just have 2 kids so it kinda hit me when I found out I was pregnant again and now that he’s here it’s been a bit hard adapting to this new change. Very emotional ...

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Husband being a jerk now that we have 2 kids

I have a 2 year old and a 4 month old baby and we still haven’t gotten used to having two kids yet, but my husband basically refuses to watch both of them at the same time to give me a break. A couple nights a week he goes to recovery meetings (he’s been sober 7 years) so I do bedtime by myself and he never has to d...

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When do we get 20hrs free childcare and what are the conditions around it and how do you even apply

No one tells you anything these days I can only describe health visitors as useless they've seen our boy twice since he was a week old and they give you no information at all 😔 it's like youve had your baby off you go figure everything out on your own

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foods

has anyone let there baby try certain fruits or vegetables at 4 months? his pediatrician said he can start trying some but i’m just unsure on what and how to go about it with him, my mom let him suck on a apple once and he loved it then my baby dad let him suck on a cucumber which he hated lol, i just don’t know how...

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Baby rice/ Porridge for 3 month old

Hi all, I need some advice please, my little boy is 14 weeks old (so 3 months) and he still screams out for more food after giving him a bottle, he has 8oz every 2-3 hours, but my health visitor hasn’t been much help at all . Please can someone say they’ve been in my position and they have given their little one eit...

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Getting 7m old to take a dummy…

My son has started to suck his thumb A LOT and especially associates it with sleeping. I have an almost 4 year old who sucked her thumb all the time and it was hell trying to get her to stop (only stopped last year as the dentist told her her teeth were crooked) I am DESPERATE to get my son to take a dummy but he w...

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13 yo help!

We have just starting fostering a 12 year old girl, she’s going to be 13 in 2 weeks and still staying with us but we have no clue what a 13 yo would want for her birthday and she’s very shy and vague when asked. Any help would be great! :)

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Not gaining weight

My little girl hasn’t gaining much weight. December she as 10kg January 10.1kg March 10.2kg She has been unwell a lot throughout winter but she’s just not gaining weight anymore. What do I do? She does eat a lot of food when she’s well!

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Toy suggestions

What sort of toys does your little ones enjoying playing with? I want something that my little girl can concentrate on and keep her busy

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Playing at the park and an incident happened

So my little boy has only turned 2 in February and we where playing at the park and he pulled a little boys hair waiting to go down the slide and the mum said you hit back when that happens ( also he didn’t hit the wee boy ) so I was raging and shouted he is only 2 he doesn’t know and I do tell him off for that beca...

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