Community Posts, Tips & Support on Mental Health

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Solo mama vacation!

Been feeling really stressed out and overwhelmed being a new mom and getting through the holidays. Finding myself daydreaming about spending a weekend away at a hotel and just RELAX! Anyone else ever feel the same?

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Postpartum .. something?

Anybody just feel blah ??? Like not bad not good just like not really yourself. Like I have periods when my babies sleep and I could just sit there in silence and just stare at the wall. I get so lost in that sometimes that an hour or two can be past and then she’s up again. I’m not going back to work yet, maybe I’...

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No friends, mum of a toddler and pregnant!

Just sorting baby clothes out sat on my own and it makes me realise how alone I am, anyone else?

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Need mummy friends

Feel so lonely like I have no one to talk to I have 10 week old my partner does fuck all now all he wants to do is sleep not help

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Loneliness

I can’t tell you how lonely I am and how much I crave intimacy, emotionally and mentally. I’m a single mum of two a 5 month old and 8 year old. It’s so lonely, so I drink a lot when the kids are in bed. I have some close friends but it still doesn’t compensate for having a partner to share living with. I feel I’m on...

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Hot take on honesty

Honesty is overrated if it’s weaponized. People glorify “brutal honesty,” but truth without empathy is just cruelty dressed up as virtue. Real honesty isn’t about saying everything on your mind—it’s about being authentic while considering the impact of your words. Being kind and truthful is a harder, but far more me...

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No interest outside of my baby

Pre baby I used to be extremely social and love doing things with my friends, however since my boy I have no interest in doing anything outside of being with him. I think it’s because 1) I feel really self Conscious in how I look post baby, and 2) I don’t feel like any of my friends understand having a baby, as non ...

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Anyone else ?

Sometimes I feel like I'm not even am adult I'll be turning 23 and I don't have a bank account no savings or career. I got pregnant young and my plan was to finish school and start working. I feel dependent on my husband and im not sure what steps to take..

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Xx

Anyone else fed up doing things alone with there little ones, also doing solo days out or park trips or even rainy days in the house trying to fined ways to entertain them..? I have three boys and my youngest is one, but we’d love to have some company to keep us/me sane x

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What do I do

I’m a recently single mom of 2 under 2 and I’m struggling. We have no financial support, very little family support, and I’m currently unemployed because I was a stay at home mom and finding something just hadn’t been easy. As of a few days ago me and my children were in an accident luckily everyone ended up being o...

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God not others too

Hi I just joined this group and read some threads. Cannot believe I am not alone but also felt sad how many of us have to suffer. And pay terrible cost of enduring toxicity to stay in a marriage/relationship 😒

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Vent

Feel pretty lonely honestly I can’t find anyone I can talk about future baby ideas with and it’s so annoying honestly 💔😓 wish I had someone not even the baby daddy doesn’t care . Like ik the baby hasn’t arrived but nice to talk about future stuff like nursery ideas baby shower ideas & Halloween ideas .

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Single mama

This is the HARDEST THING IVE EVER DONE . I am a single mama to a 5 month old little boy . No help at all . From no family his dad lives 5 hours away and doesn’t come down often : I am over stimulated , depressed, just everything you feel . Tired. It makes me never wanna be a mom again . I don’t wanna wake up but I ...

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Lonely and cold lmao

FaceTime or in-person mom friends?

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Being a mom is lonely

I wish I had more friends where I lived. I love being a mom but it’s so lonely sometimes especially a stay at home mom.

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I’m genuinely so lonely 😭 why is motherhood so isolating?

I have my family, yes. But… idk how to explain it. It’s just….rough sometimes feeling so alone in this nonstop, repeat cycle.

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Am I unusual?

While I can’t wait to meet my baby boy, part of me is feeling really sad about not being pregnant with him anymore. I feel so close and connected to him, why am I feeling sad about my pregnancy coming to an end?

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Lonely AF

I've come to accept I have no true friends, since having my second baby whose now 4 months I can count on 1 hand whose checked in or come to see us and then I've not heard anything back. I've had to reach out to friends myself and they've said they will come over soon but never actually come over. I understand every...

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Going through my 3rd divorce

Anyone in the same boat? Going through all alone in a state where I don't know anyone, just need someone to talk to that can relate I feel so alone and helpless.

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When you all but beg someone to come hangout with you because you're struggling mentally...

And they use that as time to throw in your face that you never go over there...🤦‍♀️ I do btw just easier at my house ad i have a 2 year old &it's much not kid friendly.

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