Community Posts, Tips & Support on Mental Health

Honest, unfiltered, and in real-time: what women like you are talking about. Peanut group chats, support, and posts on Mental Health.

New mom adjusting to life with a new born

Some days it’s easier some days I just feel kinda empty is there anything that can help me adjust during these first few weeks with a little one? I just don’t know who to talk to

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Feeling alone && confused

Idk what to do… && I feel like I have no one. Just really feel like I need someone to vent to

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lonely.

anyone else lost all friends since having a child..? literally none of my friends want to hang out with me anymore because of my daughter and this makes me really sad although my daughter’s father is such a amazing dad he always watches her if I want to hang out with friends and all of mine make excuses despite my h...

Incognito
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Unable to let go and work or do anything else except looking after my angel twin girls 4months old. How to go back to work or do anything else?

I am really struggling with leading a normal life. I was blessed with twin girls 4 months back and till now i am motivated able to leave them with nanny even for a minute or even wth my mom . It feels like i will miss out if i am away from them. I am unable to sleep or work from home or go out for a coffee or two.. ...

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I’m sick and tired of folks committing crimes and then people start considering and accepting “mental illness” could have been why.

I believe in mental illness and believe in seeing a doctor or therapist for guidance/help. What I hate is people coming out of the woodworks after they commit a crime because they refuse to take accountability

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My best friend has seen me twice since having my 1.5 year old.

On one hand I'm like I get it she has work and a life. But at the same time I see her hanging out with her other friends so she can clearly make time to see them but not me... I feel like I'm being selfish but I miss my friend... We've known each other since we were literally babies... Has anyone else gone through t...

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Holidays- Is it just me?

I'm 37 years old and haven't really been a huge fan of this time of year. My mother passed away when I was 16 and my father is just now establishing a relationship with me just this past year. My family let me down when my mother passed without much support at all. I put myself through college and have a 13 year old...

T
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I hate my job..I seriously hate it

I really need to leave my job but I don't know what to do.. I am applying for jobs but not getting anywhere..I can't stand the place and people..its really getting to me

K
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Lonely

Is anyone finding maternity leave lonely? My partner works nights and is doing loads of overtime. We haven’t got much money so can’t afford baby classes etc. and I’m not feeling up to go going out now. I was a few weeks ago. I spend most of my time doing washing/ watching tv: family and friends are too far away.

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Partner’s/boyfriends/husbands

Hi I know this may sound like a silly question but I need some advice. If you’re in a relationship/married and pregnant and both working full time. What does your evenings/ weekends look like? Do you talk to your partner’s all time? Do you still go out on dates? I just feel like every day is ground hog day. 😩😢…

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Feel like a failure

Honestly, I can't help feeling like a total failure, I'm a first-time mum, and every time my LO, who is 3 months today, goes into a total meltdown, I can't help but break down myself. I feel so emotionally and physically drained by doing all the night feeds and then having to go about our day. Sometimes, I feel l...

K
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Do you pamper yourself??? Nails, hair, pedi, etc 💄💅🏽💆🏽‍♀️😌

I have a 14 yr old & a 6 month old. I feel like I could be confused as a bum 75% of the time we’re out. I just don’t even have time for myself anymore & it’s making me super self conscious 😞

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Lonely

I have 2 children, 1 boy 14 months and a baby girl that’s a few weeks old. Ever since becoming a mum I’ve felt so lonely. Since having my first child I don’t speak to my family because I wanted to break the toxic cycles and give my children the best chance at life. My husband works 14 hours a day, 5 days a week so I...

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My Trump friend

She said she would donate to a charity. Then said she had. But she hadn't. She said she voted Trump the first time. Then when he started to do bad things in power, she denied voting for him. I suspect she voted for him again. I have no idea how to relate to her. She's nice, but I think like Trump, there's comfor...

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Mums with multiple children

How did you cope with the pending arrival of your 2nd+ born? I am so so excited to meet our newest family member next week but my god the tears I have shed this last week every time I think about it no longer being me and our first. I never went back to work so for over a year it’s just been us every day and as aw...

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Shesh

I think I’m really going crazy .. lol well ever since I got pregnant I lost all my friends so I been pretty lonely my whole pregnancy ( plus being a single mom) fast forward I’m starting to get used to being a mom but it lowkey depressing that all I am is a mom🥺 I wish I had friends to talk to or even send lil…

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First 40 women in free…4 days of Exclusive transformation coaching!

It’s all in the eyes, babe. I remember looking in the mirror and feeling like I wasn’t living up to my full potential. I just knew there was more for me. Stuck in my own head, overthinking every decision, wondering if I’d ever actually feel alive. That version of me? She had dreams, but she was hiding from her ...

Darcel Being
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Single mum embarrassment

Why is it that I genuinely find it so embarrasing that I’m a single mum. I never look at other single mums and think “ha ha how embarrassing” but yet I’m just so embarrassed and SO ashamed that I am one. Anyone else relate? And did anyone else feel this way once upon a time and get over it? I don’t even care to b...

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First time mum

Any other mums felt isolated when becoming a first time mum, like you’re so happy to have your baby but also feel abit low because you feel isolated. Any mums from Sheldon/Yardley/Ackocks Green/Solihull/Shirley area with a baby message me 😌

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Idk how to feel 😩

I hate that I get this sudden burst of emotions like I’m so happy to be with this man and I want to marry him but only when he’s not around! But then when he’s around it’s like I don’t want to be bothered by him but at the same time I do want to be bothered by him, and then when he’s around me I feel annoyed by his ...

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