@Skhan I’m was referring to custodial visitation not visitation after giving birth. My apologies for not making that clear in my post!
Just try to comfort the babies as much as possible and try to set boundaries that make you more comfortable maybe ask the father to call to check in a few times threw out the day so you feel more safe and try to pack them some stuff that they will need 💞
In our culture we don’t have visitation till 40 days but they wait more than 2 months for mom to recover and be ready to make tea for them 🤒😁