You owe your kids. Idc what anyone says, you do.
You owe them a solid foundation.
You owe them unconditional love.
You owe them your time.
You owe them experiences.
You owe them your loyalty.
You owe them a lot. They didn’t ask to be here.
Stop giving your kids the bare minimum.
Along those lines, in order to give your kids what they deserve, you owe yourself some time to yourself as well. Even just going out by yourself for a coffee while someone else watches your kid/kids, when you come back, you'll find you have much more tolerance, and you'll feel less frustrated.
@Kai that’s totally true for the mothers who need that get away.
@R 🖤 everyone needs that get away, some just need it less often than others
Along those lines, in order to give your kids what they deserve, you owe yourself some time to yourself as well. Even just going out by yourself for a coffee while someone else watches your kid/kids, when you come back, you'll find you have much more tolerance, and you'll feel less frustrated.