Do you believe in phrase stay for the kids?

I think that for me it’s important to exhaust all options, one of the reasons being is because we have children together but if two adults aren’t willing to be and work together as a team -in a manner that’s healthy for both themselves and the children then it’s best to separate

No. You only live once and your happiness & wellbeing shouldn't be compromised.

No unless it can’t be avoided, you’ve tried all other avenues