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Welcome to the club! Currently 17w5d with baby number 2 🙈
Welcome to the 2025 baby club! I'm 28 weeks and just found out a couple weeks ago 🙃 had absolutely no symptoms and our last little boy was our miracle double rainbow baby
@Janae girl WHAT!?! only found out a couple of weeks ago? Idk if I should envy you or not 😂😂 that is absolutely wild. First trimester had me literally down and out with migraines constantly. I would’ve done anything to skip that
@Meghan @Janae I just found out today and I think I’m passed 12 weeks. I randomly felt a movement in my belly. Going to schedule my appointment asap 😩
Yall are so lucky 😭 in my opinion I know not everyone feels like that, but i find out at like the 3 week mark. Once that bad boy attaches to my uterus my symptoms flare up and they just never cease
@Olivia We are sooo not ready, especially financially 😩. And I was just slowly getting back to myself. Really bad timing I’ve been crying all day. And I feel bad for crying. Poor baby 😩
Awe honey it’s totally normal to feel like that! You are allowed to feel how you feel and process your emotions! Good news and bad news take equal adjustment time!
@Meghan Lol I think you’re lucky for finding out right away, I’m so shocked now, really didn’t expect this to happen now
@Meghan how did your family react? I know it’s not about them but my family has seen me struggle and now I gotta do it all over again. I wanted another baby but not for another 2 years at least 😞
We tried for this baby and even now I’m still wrapping my head around it and feeling guilty, scared, happy, excited, sad. I can’t imagine this being thrust upon me and with being almost out of the first trimester. It’s hard and it’s different than my first. With my first it was just me and my husband waiting for her but with this second pregnancy it’s a lot of dealing with the emotions of my first baby not being my only baby. That doesn’t make this current baby unwanted, it just is different and a hard adjustment. I’m grieving my little family of three because it seems so perfect just the three of us but I know that this next baby and eventually the one after that will be puzzle pieces we didn’t know we were missing. There’s lots of time to process and feeling everything, let yourself feel it but I encourage you to look beyond when your kiddos are 13 and 14 or 6 and 7 and they love each other and care for one another and play together. Knowing those moments will happen has
Helped me process this a lot!
@Meghan thank you so much reading this helps me already 🙏
I’m not in the group but my first was 11 months old when I found out I was pregnant, she’s now 19 months and I have a 2 week old and I will say it’s definitely not easy by any means, But I just keep telling myself that they will always be close when they get older and be built in best friends. My daughter loves her baby sister and is super protective already and takes the big sister role very seriously. It’s honestly beautiful to watch how she is with the baby.🥹❤️
@Courtney thank you for sharing 🙏 I just have to keep these things in mind. We’re so not ready financially but we’ll make it work 🙏
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Same here! 19 weeks now 😅
This time around daddy had all the symptoms. He got the nauseas, headaches, cravings. When I say all of it, trust me all of it. I went to have my marena removed because my face was bursting out and surprise!!! Baby girl was already there. I thought that those tells were just simple stories. But I didn’t feel anything different with this pregnancy.
I commented a week ago. Today I found out I too am pregnant again. I also have a 9 mo old
@Olivia welcome to the club 😅
I did not see your comment about family! Uh to tell you the truth, I am 20 weeks on Friday and they don’t know and we don’t plan to tell them until after he’s born 😬 I just wanted everyone off my backs and my first pregnancy was really overwhelming because of them. So we just kept it a secret, got past the holidays and that’s all we needed to keep it hidden lol. My husbands family and mine don’t know, just some select friends and tbh it’s been such a nice pregnancy. I don’t owe anyone the news!
@Olivia omggggg and you said “my fear” 😩 I’m sorry and congratulations girl. Do you know how far u are? I finally have an appointment with my doctor next week! I have no idea how far along I am exactly but I definitely feel baby moving. Belly is not that big tho, just look bloated
@Meghan wow that’s must be so nice! We haven’t told anyone yet either besides a couple really good friends. And I’ll tell my mom soon too, we see her every weekend so it’s hard to hide lol but I would’ve loved to keep it a secret like you! Good for you
I think I’m only about 5-6 weeks, going in next week for the first visit. I was not excited at first. Now I’ve gotten over some of that initial fear and I’m on board!
@Olivia love that! And same, I’m also on board now. My doctor was away and is finally back and I didn’t wanna see anyone else so I get to see her tomorrow I’m really wondering how far I am!
Omg my fear! But you know what? You did it once, you’ve got this. This time you’re wiser and more prepared