Marriage

Um just mind your business and just tell her congratulations and if shit hits the fan just be there for her?? 🫡 it's her life let her live it luckily her decision won't affect your life so just let it be🫶🏼🫶🏼

@Victoria Aguilar okok it’s painful to watch .shes acting like its a fairytale dream come true

It probably is for her hell my husband isn't a millionaire he works a 12/hr job works 40 hours before that he was jobless for the last 4 months of my youngest pregnancy im a sahm we sold just about everything we had while he was jobless due to him braking his arms both money doesn't make you happy and it's good on his end that she's not focused on money bc if she was then he wouldn't be so eager to marry her bc most girls marry just to get half of everything the guy worked hard to get by himself before they met and want to meet the guy at the end of his success not walk along him through the good bad and ugly till they get to the success

@Victoria Aguilar he needs to get married to a US citizen in order to not get deported. This wasnt a decision made purely on love . Its required so he cn stay in the states

I really want to mind my business until they are a year in and living together and sharing responsibilities thats when the real work begins . Not when your under your moms roof playing house one time a month .

How do you know it's not on both?! Can not make assumptions on a situation you're not involved in 🫡

@Victoria Aguilarr yeah if he was a citizen i highly doubt they would be getting married today but i also watch 90 day fiancé so its possible lol

And how do you know they weren't planning this before now?? Like I said leave it alone none of your business who she gets married to and for what reason just be there for her let her live her life

@Victoria Aguilarr yeah i believe it was arranged. Tbh i dont give a damn but it sounds like a trainwreck waiting to happen but again thats none of my business and i dont want to hear about it .

If it's a trainwerk it'll be but she'll learn for it if It does end up being that way just be a good cousin and don't judge and be there all you really can do 🫶🏼

@Victoria Aguilar yeah thats true. I honestly dont want to hear about it cause tbh shes never there for me i mean my son is five and shes only probably met him twice but is always inviting me to go out and party. But honestly i will just put a zipper on it and be supportive.

That's wild I'm sorry girl 🥺💔

Maybe you shouldn’t talk to her anymore if you think of her like this. I mean and she’s not there for you either it seems.. idk it seems like you dislike her by the way you’re speaking about her..

@Ariyana no I honestly think it’s just resentment, but I do love her overall she is a sweet person hence her getting married very early on in her relationship

It’s the honesty that I want to tell her but without sounding like a bitch lol so I’m gonna just vent on this app in hopes that I can be supportive when I need to be

I understand !!