Im over my cry baby bd

Start watermarking the pictures

Sounds like a right tosser! I'd contact CSA at least to get some money from him. I'd also tell him he needs to go to court to get set days to see her. Xx

I would stop sending pictures all together . Its not fair to babygirl that he gets to boast about her and not be there for her at all . Get child support and visitation in order

I feel you I’ve got a similar situation !! I refuse to send pics now .

Yea I'd say if you want a picture you gotta visit and take it yourself dude. Some men are losers. I'm sorry for you and sweet baby girl, she's a cutie

@Danya how do you do that?

@Ness go to your app store and search “watermark maker” and look through a few of the apps and click the one you want to use . Its pretty easy to make once you got the app downloaded

I love her hair colour! Definitely watermark the image or at least write your name over it in editing . Or don’t even send him pictures. Ik it’s stress, but you may as well try get something out of him or at least try to see if he could take her. But then again would he even really look after her??

Don’t send photos. It’s that simple. If he wants to see her he can come. That way even if courts get involved you can show proof that the door was always open. You don’t have to share photos and judge won’t make you.

What if you take your feelings out of the mix? You decided to have a baby and it is your responsibility to take care of her. I am sure it would be awesome and helpful to have him around more but it seems like you are the one getting stressed and worked up about it. Is that good for your health, mental or physical? You have this beautiful blessing of a girl that you get to mold and watch her blossom into a wonderful human being. Focus on her and her needs. If bd wants to see her, within boundaries that it works for your schedule, let it happen. If he boasts about your child, let him, she is beautiful and she deserves to be boasted about. Regardless who is doing the boasting. When it comes time to having a relationship with his child, he will be the one missing out due to his choices. Not because you withheld her or forced her to visit him with a court order. That could be horrible. Love her and just keep loving her. You are a great mom and you can create the best childhood for her. Let the rest go. 🥰

Make sure you document everything in case he tries to gain custody by looking like the perfect dad. Respond to him reiterating days he couldn't come with whatever excuses that he made, and the things she needs/needed that he didn't provide. He could take pictures when he comes when he's supposed to.