Don’t know how much more I can take
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@Akasha it gets better. He’s going sleep now because he’s tired. And once again I am being left to do everything. It’s like living the same day every day it’s vile
I was there once. I put up with it for 15 years it's exhausted me. He never changed no many how many times he said he would. I did everything with our 4 kids , plus did tasks around the house he could of done like cutting grass and putting out trash. I watched kids daily cooked clearness did all the responsibilities. He just basically lived his life and complained . He was literally misery
He sounds like a bully, it sounds like you're doing everything by yourself already. Have you spoken to him about how you feel and how he makes you feel?
@Akasha that’s him. It’s like he loves being miserable and enjoys watching me struggle and cry
@R 🪬 I say it every day and every day I get told to shut up he’s sick of hearing me and sick of looking at my miserable face
Wow yup good riddance is what id say. Either he helps and is respectful or leaves. Cause your kid will grow up listening to him and then in turn be disrespectful to women or people as well!
Leaving can seem scary but waking up in 10 years time in the exact same place is even scarier. You deserve so much better. Parenting is teamwork, he’s not pulling his weight at all. It should be mutual, not just left to one person. He doesn’t sound like the type that’s easy to communicate with. I know baby is only 9 weeks but baby deserves a happy, well taken care of mum xx
@Akasha that’s what I’ve said I don’t want her growing up thinking this is all ok. He doesn’t contribute to bills either it’s all me
@Sarah 7 years and nothing has changed. I just want to be happy and was hoping with the baby it would be but it’s not. I’m still made to feel worthless every day. Anything I say ends up with him falling out with me and me being ignored for days. And it’s usually over the most stupid of things. I darent ask for help anymore no point it’s not worth the hassle that’s comes with asking
Ya not worth your mental health staying in something like that. Trust me . Don't wait 15 years like I did
That so disheartening to hear how you feel. No one should ever be made to feel so low by their own partner. Do you have a good support network to lean on? Leaving a relationship isn't as black white and simple. You cannot be spoken to and treated like this anymore. Your life isn't pathetic. He is the pathetic one for making you think this way about yourself.
@R 🪬 this is just the icing on the cake. The names I am called on a daily basis makes me just feel worthless. I just keep my mouth shut and head down in the hope I don’t annoy him in all honesty. I always manage to somehow though. Don’t really have anyone to talk to can’t admit it to anyone x
🥺. You can't keep living like this, this is so bad for your mental health and it has been going on for a long time. I saw above you've been together for 7 years? And it's been like this the whole time? What is he like when he's around other people does he completely change? You cannot stay with him, he is a abuser. Are you based in the UK? (I assume so) there are women's aid and other options you can explore if you need help leaving him. I hate that you're being treated like this.
@R 🪬 on and off. Just feel like I have lost all my confidence I’m not the person I used to be at all x
He's sounds like an ass and I'd consider leaving . He doesn't appreciate you. He's selfish.