Second kid??

No advice, just sending solidarity hugs. Same boat here, except I'm 39 lol. Can't decide :/

The first year or two is hard. It's so much work, but it's also so much love... ❤️ Think about your support system, will you bend or will you break?

Nothing wrong with deciding to not have anymore children my daughters 3 and crazy I'm about to turn 35 my husband and I are leaning towards one and done

I understand this too! I'm 34 and my little one is only 11mo. I can't fathom how I'm supposed to go back to work and function, let alone have another. We also need to move house to have the space for another. But it took nearly 2yrs of trying, and both me and husband had wanted more than one from the start... in my heart I want another but my head is saying hard no right now lol

I just had my 3rd and it’s A LOT tbh, idk how ppl have so many kids

I thought I was done after 2. I was seriously very happy with two girls, but when we had my son (not planned) - I really felt complete.

Wow thank you gals for your comments. It really motivated me .

I just had my 3rd baby. He was our only planned child. (My first was a birth control baby and my second was a broken condom baby 🫠🫠) i honestly wouldn't change any of it though. I will say being significantly older though, it was pretty tough. I first got pregnant when I was 24 and that was a breeze! But being pregnant at 34 was way different and really hard on my body physically. I'm also a heavier woman (I was 218 lbs when I got pregnant) so that played a role in the struggle as well. It was hard and at times I thought I would break but it was so worth it seeing my kids altogether and seeing my 2 older kids interact with the baby has been truly amazing.