I feel selfish

I recently found out I was pregnant and I am deciding to keep it a secret but a lot of my family is mad that I will not allow them to share my news on to social media. I only told close family (mom , sisters brother, 3-4 aunts and uncles ) but they want to talk and tell others . Am I wrong for telling them they will not be apart of nothing I do from here on out for my child since they cannot respect my boundaries now I can’t imagine how they will act once I actually have the child . Yes I am a first time mom but I am also a older sister to 6 younger siblings and been a infant , pre-k and now kindergarten teacher all in da last 12 years so I have very good knowledge when it comes to children. To have one of my own that I created is different because I am their sole source of protection . Am I wrong ??

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No. It's not their news to share. If you want to keep it private, that's well within your right to do so. If they don't like it, then tough 🤷🏽‍♀️.

I told my family when i was 4month…told some of my friends at 6 and most of the people i know that are not close dont even know yet. They were a bit upset at first but then the excitement kicked in :) so don’t worry about your decision..it’s absolutely your choice when and who to tell and they should understand it! 😘

@Ale I think I will be hiding it well at least keeping it to myself until I’m ready to actually tell people . I don’t want to do no gender reveal or baby shower , I’m real big on energy and positivity and I feel like there will be a lot of bad energy and negativity around and I don’t want that . People only being around because I’m pregnant or because they want to be around the baby I don’t like fake love . Am I wrong for that?

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