Guilt

Me and my partner want to try for my second child but I have pure mum guilt! Did anyone else have this?
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Yes and I did my entire pregnancy and I still do for both of them BUT they have an amazing bond already and I know they are both loved and get as much of my attention as I can possibly give. The guilt is all worth it! 🥰

Thank you lucy, least I know someone else has been through it!! And know it is normal. And it's worth it xo thank you xo

Yesss im pregnant with my second and sometimes the guilt makes me cry! But ive been told by so many people its a normal response and honestly I know its the right decision its just that initial transition that fills me with guilt x

@Lucy exactly this! There is exactly 2 years between my two. Not gonna lie it’s hard work but they already have this amazing bond where they take turns to annoy me 😂

@Dal 🤣 tag team to wind you up 🎉 kids are the hardest but most amazing creatures ever haha

@Iesha so worth it! Sending lots of luck and love your way x

I have 1.9 year age gap between my girls I never wanted a second child that close together but it happened. To be honest when I found out we having second baby I was crying so much I couldn’t stop for a few days , then I thought it will be so nice to have them so close together, but still I was crying and felt guilty till I had my second daughter. But now I wouldn’t changed it to the world my oldest loves her sister so much she keeps hugging her, kissing her always when we pick her up from the nursery first thing which she does is looking for her sister. It’s fine to feel guilty I don’t see anything bad , it’s your feeling your emotions. But it’s all worth it, trust me xxx

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