I'd sit him down and say right this is it I've had enough tell him what you've had enough off and then say I've tried lots of times and your not changing anything about it I'm gonna be single we are done...... I'm sorry your going through this hun message me
I think you know the answer, but asking because you wish you didn’t! I was having something similar, and we’re taking time apart and Im soooo much happier. So that’ll be positive for you. Problem is, in my experience if he’s not interested in the kids now he won’t be when you separate either. So be prepared that not much will change.
Sounds like you wouldn't miss him if you did call it quits x
Sounds like he wants single life not family life.. start fresh and meet someone who wants to be around you and you'd children