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NO JUDGMENT!!!! I was diagnosed with postpartum depression and anxiety and more due to me finding out my partner cheated on me. I also found out the apartment we were moving into where he works he’s being kissing and doing more to his boss. She’s knows who I am and once day I was waiting for him to get off before we moved and I saw him kissing on her . Since then it’s been worrying me if he’s doing it again . Just hurting me for no reason. Well I got angry todsy and tokd him how are u gonna tell me u wanna work things out but ur not reassuring me. You don’t love on me or anything I went off because I was tryna make things work regardless of what my friends &family say. I got mad hit him with a pillow and he got up and hit me in my face with his fist. I feel so stupid and dumb for thinking he actually loved me because love isn’t supposed to hurt I just need words of encouragement ! He told me I have no self respect which isn’t true I just love to hard and I thought he was my person

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He put his hand on you that is not love, please remove yourself and your baby from this situation. You deserve better. ❤️

Leave. It’ll only get worse

If this sounds harsh I’m sorry, but he’s right. You have no self-respect, you took him back after he cheated, and you are letting him walk all over you. You need to leave, it’ll only get worse! He doesn’t respect you, or your relationship. You are right, love isn’t supposed to hurt, you deserve better.

Babe get the hell out of there. It’s only going to get harder to leave the longer you stay.

Actually babe, he’s right. You don’t have enough self respect because you keep tolerating his behaviour and he knows that. He knows that as long as you don’t respect yourself, you will stay and continue to allow this behaviour. I’m speaking from experience. You gotta go, you gotta do something that will give you courage to leave. I hope you find it soon ma 🧡

So first and foremost I didn’t take him back I was told not to make any decisions based on emotions which I didn’t. We have just been in limbo caring for our daughter we had to move due to him not having a job …. The behavior was never forgiven the cheating was never accepted but I csn say I wanted my family and for things to get better that’s where I’m stupid. I’m not just over here getting beat on we have been together a long ass time since I’m on maternity leave and not working at the moment it’s hard to just get up and go but I do have my escape plan and he will never have to worry about us again

As long have u have an escape plan all that matters just work ur way out of it before he finds out or it could be worse. If he ever do don't eat or drink anything he does an don't take any medicine he gives u as well unless u seen it freshly pop open just saying from experience I wish u an ur baby the best of luck an hope u get out of the situation an I'm sorry he put u thru this especially for being together for so long..

You sound offended, which was not my intention in my comment but I sounds like you’ve got it sorted xx

@Becka maybe its how u read it but i definitely wasn’t 💞

Yes could like be xx

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