Fighting
My bd is not an aggressive guy. But when we argue it’s like something comes over him. idk if I antagonize him because when he doesn’t want to talk I get upset & I keep hounding him and eventually he’ll get up and push me away and I think it’s abusive. He knows it’s wrong and recently we’ve decided to take a break because he knows he can’t control his anger and says we shouldn’t be together because of it but it honestly infuriates me that he can’t control his emotions and now my whole life is just up and changing because I would have to get my own apartment now and basically start over because I hate living with him if we’re not together. I wanna know if it’s worth holding on too but I know what everyone says once things get physical it’s best to cut it off because it will only get worse but it hurts .. I don’t want to give up
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I’ve thought about it .. haven’t mentioned it to him though
Not saying it’s OK for him to push you but if you’re that close to him and antagonizing him that much that he feels to push you away you’re doing something wrong as well. You’re both in the wrong
No actually I’ll be across the room and he’ll come to me
Not saying he’s in the right, but you’ve literally said yourself that you antagonize and hound him when he doesn’t wanna talk so maybe you both have things that you’ve gotta work on nobody’s perfect He definitely needs to get his anger under control
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Have you thought about couples therapy?