Husband advise

So my husband called off work today, he works till 11 to 12 every night so I usually let him sleep in later in the day, Today my son woke up at 4 AM so I was up with him all morning then my husband woke up around 10 and hopped on his game for three hours, then asked me if he could go see his friends where he’s been all day… it’s 630 he told me he would bring me flowers and buy groceries and bring us food but I’m really not seeing how this is fair? I never get to see my friends or play video games in the middle of the day. Am I being unfair?
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I see where you’re coming from. I feel like everyone deserves a break but at the end of the day just bc he took a day off doesn’t stop him from being a parent he should at least let you have a break or time for yourself even if it’s for a little and then he has his time but like I said just bc he works and gets a day off doesn’t mean it’s supposed to stop him from being a parent at the end of the day you did help create your son by yourself.

It sounds like he's gotten 3 breaks today. Tell him you are taking a break next. And then go do that. He is a parent too.

I’d say unless he’s going through period of high stress that needs extra rest, he’s getting too many breaks. Letting him sleep in is nice but the rest sounds like too much.

Could you explain how you just need a 1hr nap?

3 hours gaming in the middle of the day as a parent is diabolical 💀 it’s a massive hell no from me

You should definitely plan on at least 3hrs to yourself in return and a friend date stat!

Ughhhhh yeah no sorry but that’s not fair for him to do that to you.

I voted wrong. I thought totally unfair was about him being totally unfair for making you do everything and wanting to see his friends… you deserve a breaaaaaak. He had one for 3 hours playing games.

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